Thursday, December 29, 2016

Mommy had another birthday

Mommy turned 31 this year.
And this year she wanted to celebrate in style...
with a brand new mini van!


And I love it! We were going to wait another year or two but I'm so glad we didn't.
I've truly come to a place in my life, or a peace in my life,
where I don't want for myself nearly as much as I used to.
Daddy finished building my dream pantry,
which was all I really asked for.
And I got a mini van. 
And he got me flowers the day of that truly surprised me and was more than I ever expected. 
In that moment, I knew that at 31-years-old I had already found the key to true happiness.


My kids are happy and healthy. My husband is happy and healthy and loving.
That's my life's wish come true!

Plus, I got a new president too...

Baby Ty on election night November 2016

The Toy Story Gang is Here!

Halloween 2016 was one for the books! 
Porter truly loves Halloween.
He has been talking about it since last Halloween.

HTCS Pre-K 3 October 2016
Mommy went with Porter to his first field trip to the corn maze and pumpkin patch.
There are some good kids in his class. And he loves his teachers. 

Porter with Ms. Marcie (left) and Ms. Denise.


For months, he told us that he wanted to be Buzz Lightyear.
So we had to make that happen.
But he was also determined that daddy was Woody
and mommy was Jessie.
And he wanted Baby Ty to be Bullseye. 


Needless to say, we couldn't find a Bullseye costume
but he settled for "little Woody."

I have to admit I've been kind of a bah humbug for Halloween for years now.
I don't know why. I guess it's just a lot of work to put something together.
But this year I was so glad we pulled it off.
Porter was so excited!
I made my shirt and his wings, and I think it turned out great.

We attended the annual Trunk or Treat
and we decided to trick-or-treat in our new neighborhood.
Uncle Jeff, Aunt B.Z. and Baby Zelleigh joined us too.

The boys brought home lots of loot and we all had a blast!
Porter is already talking about next year...

Porter Made it to 3!

Porter is three years old.
And I believe we escaped this past year without any major incidents
(unlike the first two years of his life).

Sometimes I look at him and can't believe how much he has grown.
And then I have to remind myself that he's not going to stop.
And then I get sad.
And then he's grumpy or whiny or sassy and I can't wait until he grows out of that phase.
And that makes me think about him growing up and I get sad again.
Ah. Being a mother surely has it's pros and cons.
But a lot more pros with these two around!


We took these series of photos the day before Porter turned three
so Ty was almost 14 months.
They melt my heart every time I look at them.
Ty has a black eye in the photos from when he slipped in the bath tub.
The photographer asked if I wanted her to photoshop it.
I told her no. I want to remember life exactly how it was...

Chaotic, even dysfunctional at times, but full of love and joy.


This three-year-old is definitely full of love and joy.
He listens well. He helps his brother. He makes his brother laugh. He makes us laugh.
He has a kind heart. He is giving and caring. He is timid and careful. He is friendly and sensitive.
He is wonderful. He's SUPER!


This year we celebrated with a small dinner with family.
He got a few gifts and a homemade birthday cake.
I will never forget after almost everyone had gone home and it was dark out,
Porter sat at the dining room table playing with his new Mr. & Mrs. Potato Head
while we talked in the kitchen with Aunt Amber.
He suddenly started getting down from the table and saying,
"Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for my party, Mom!"
as he ran over to me and gave me the biggest hug.
It brought tears to my eyes to know that I'm raising a considerate and grateful child.


The above photo was his first try. Mommy tried for days to train Daddy how to do his hair.
And we talked to Porter about his photos at school and tried to get him to practice smiling.
They didn't turn out great so we had a redo.
I love that we captured this though. This photo shows more to me than a timid 3-year-old.
It shows me that Baxter is the one who feeds and clothes 
the children every morning while I'm already at work.
And it shows me a spirit of adventure and courage behind those big eyes.
In this photo I can hear Porter's voice and especially his laugh.


At this age he is still mastering potty training. We only have an accident about once a week.
He's proved to be great about getting shots.
He shares with his brother even though he makes it very obvious that it's really hard.
He has started saying his "legs don't work" when he doesn't want to do something.
He always asks us if we remember something. "Remember? Remember when?"
He says everything happened yesterday. "Remember when yesterday..."
He loves Buzz Lightyear, train tracks and legos.
We love this little man.


The Turfitts Take On Dallas!

Just before Labor Day weekend,
Mommy had to go to training in Dallas.
I left on a Monday, and my three boys joined me on Thursday.
Yes, Daddy took both of you on the plan ALL BY HIMSELF.

We stayed through the weekend with our good friends The Frosts.


We just love the Frost Family and were so glad
our boys could get to know them better.

We were a little concerned because Porter is usually very shy.
But he literally walked straight into the house
(without us because we were still in the driveway talking),
and went straight up stairs to play with the kids.
We were shocked! But he really took to Ben, who is just a year older.

He ended up sleeping in Ben's bunk beds with him.
I woke up the first morning wondering if Porter was awake,
and I was thinking he may have forgotten where he was and might be scared.
But then I heard Porter whistling (he just learned how to whistle),
and I looked over the balcony and there he was just chatting it up with Meghan and Ben.
Porter, you surprise us every day!

On Friday, Meghan and I took the boys to the library and to run errands
while Daddy stayed home to study and do some homework.
That evening we ate at the best BBQ place in McKinney.

On Saturday, we drove to Waco to visit Magnolia Market,
which is a very popular "celebrity" site right now because the show is on HGTV.
It was so cute and there was so much for the kids to do.
We went for a quick swim that night at their neighborhood pool.

On Sunday, we went to church and relaxed until dinner,
where we shared in a huge feast.
Then, we went for a long walk and lit sparklers in the backyard.

We were so sad to leave our friends on Monday,
but so thankful for their friendship.

Porter still talks about "Ben's house"
and we look forward to visiting them again.